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It's Never OK
Information for Victims and Victim Advocates on Sexual Exploitation by Counselors and Therapists

Consider the Options

If I talk about this abuse, no one will believe me.  Even if they believe me, they will never understand why I let this happen.  Maybe they won't think it's any big deal... maybe they'll just think I was asking for it.  Who's going to support the client instead of the therapist?

Wheel of Options

You have many options...
Wheel of Options adapted from:
"Psychotherapists' Sexual Involvement with Clients: Intervention and Prevention
© 1989 Schoener, Milgrom, Gonsiorek, Luepker, and Conroe.

You have options in what action you can take, and you have choice in how much you want to do.  No one option is better than another.  You may choose one or a combination of several.  You may choose to do nothing.  Most people find it helpful, however, to share the experience with a trusted friend.

Ask yourself what you would like to achieve through taking action.   You may want to regain a sense of control over your life and to communicate that the sexual exploitation was not okay.  You may be concerned that the counselor who exploited you will hurt other clients and you want to take away that choice.  You may be seeking compensation for the damage done - the money that you paid to the counselor or money for future therapy.  Whatever your goal, consider what option (or options) will best suit the goal and let you put your life back in order.

Take some time to review the Wheel of Options..   The choices are explained more fully on the paragraphs following.  Just considering the choices may make you feel uncertain and confused.  Be patient with yourself.


Notify agency director, supervisor, or church hierarchy

If your counselor works in an agency, clinic, hospital or church, there is a person who is responsible for the overall operation or who directly supervises your counselor.  A complaint may be made directly to that person.  An advantage to this option is that it can bring fast action and may result in any number of consequences for the offending counselor.  A disadvantage is the possibility of not being believed by the supervisor or finding the supervisor unwilling to take action. [ back ]

Criminal Complaint

Important:  All of this section's information depends on the state in which you live!

Depending on your state's laws, sexual exploitation by counselors may be a criminal offense.  Check the applicable laws in your state.   In states where this has been criminalized under sexual assault laws, it is a criminal offense for counselors to engage in sexual activity with clients.  If found guilty, the offender may be sentenced to prison and/or required to pay a fine to the state.  It makes no difference if the client consented to any of the sexual conduct; the therapist is responsible.

Two types of sexual activity are defined.  Sexual penetration is any type of intrusion into the body of the victim - sexual intercourse, oral sex, anal sex or penetration with an object.  Sexual contact is: 1) touching by the offender of the victim's intimate parts (breasts, groin, genitals, buttocks);  2) forcing the victim to touch the offender's intimate parts; and  3) in both circumstances, touching of the clothing covering the immediate area of the intimate parts.

Criminal laws cover when there is a counselor/client relationship and the sexual act occurred during a therapy session;  when there is a current or former counselor-client relationship and the client or former client is emotionally dependent on the counselor; or when there is a current or former counselor-client relationship and the sexual act occurred by means of therapeutic deception (meaning that the counselor acted as if it was a part of the client's treatment).

In prosecuting these cases, evidence of the victim's personal or medical history is not admissible unless the court finds, at a pretrial hearing, that it is relevant.  The judge must specify what information will be allowed into the courtroom.

An advantage to this option is that it takes some of the responsibility off of the victim of sexual exploitation.  It is considered a crime against the state.  What needs to be proven is only that the activity took place, not how much damage was done.  Prosecutors from a county attorney's office are responsible for the case.  No money comes from the victim's pocket.  Also, in some county attorney's offices, there are legal advocates who help support the victim through the procedure.

One disadvantage is that it is up to the county attorney's office whether to prosecute a case that has been reported and investigated.  The case can be turned down for any number of reasons that may be out of the immediate control of the victim of sexual exploitation.  It may also feel like a very impersonal system and may take time to get to court.

Not only will you need to find out what the laws are in your state, but you must also find out the statute of limitations (the maximum time period after the crime in which charges may be filed).  In some states, this is three years. [ back ]

Compensation From Victim's Fund

(Note:  This section was added.  It was not in the original "It's Never OK" publication.)

In states where sexual exploitation has been criminalized, there may be a Crime Victim's Compensation Fund which can provide funds to assist crime victims in getting professional help in their recovery. [ back ]

Civil Suit for Damages

Important:  All of this section's information depends on the state in which you live!

Depending on your state's laws, there may be civil statutes which permit a client to sue an abusing mental health service provider and/or the mental health service provider's employer.  Check the applicable laws in your state and consult a lawyer.   In states where these statutes exist, a client may sue a therapist who has participated in any form of sexual intercourse or contact to the breasts or genitals or who has requested such activity with the client.  It does not matter who initiated the activity or if the client consented or actively participated.    These laws apply to the entire time that the individual was a client.   It does not matter whether the exploitation occurred inside or outside of the office or during or outside of a regularly scheduled appointment.

During the two years following termination of therapy, laws often still apply, if the former client has been deceived by the counselor or is still emotionally dependent on the counselor.

The injured client may also sue the employer of the counselor for damages if:  1) the employer failed to take action when they knew or had reason to know that the counselor was engaging in sexual activity with any client;  2) during the hiring process the employer failed to ask previous employers of the counselor about his or her past sexual conduct with clients; or  3) the employer failed to pass on such information to subsequent employers who asked for it.

Not only will you need to find out what the laws are in your state, but you must also find out the statute of limitations.  In some states, this is five years.

An advantage of this option is the possibility of monetary compensation for the damage done.  Depending on whether it is the counselor or the employer (or both) being sued, it also forces them to take some responsibility for the exploitation.

One disadvantage is that, because it is a civil procedure, the victim of sexual exploitation must hire the attorney.  Some attorneys will take cases like this on contingency basis (meaning that if the case is won, the attorney will simply take a percentage of the money);  many will not.  It may also take a long time for resolution to take place within the court system.  Once the suit is filed, you need to be aware of the possibility of some public exposure that may occur.  If you are thinking about a civil suit, get legal advice before taking advantage of any of the other options. [ back ]

Report to State or County Authorities

Many mental health clinics are licensed by the state or county.  This includes outpatient mental health clinics, residential treatment facilities and licensed chemical dependency programs.  If you were receiving services from a counselor who works in a licensed facility, a complaint could affect future licensing, operation and/or funding for the agency.  An advantage of this option is that it makes the agency responsible for the activity of its employees.  A disadvantage is that it gives the victim of sexual exploitation little control in terms of timing and outcome. [ back ]

Report to Adult Protection

Important:  Check for the specific policies that apply within your state.

States protect adults who, because of physical or mental disability or dependency on institutional services, are particularly vulnerable to abuse or neglect and they attempt to provide a safe environment for them.  Therefore, if someone is receiving certain types of services, he/she may be classified as a "vulnerable adult."  This means any person over 18 who:

  • is a resident or inpatient of a facility;

  • receives services at or from a facility required to be licensed;

  • receives services from certain types of home health care agencies; or

  • is unable or unlikely to report abuse or neglect without assistance because of impairment of mental or physical function or emotional status.

Within each county, there is an adult protection services that is charged with investigation of reports and providing protective and counseling services in appropriate cases.  An advantage of this option is that these people have experience in investigation of complaints.  It may be a disadvantage to be classified as a "vulnerable adult." [ back ]

Individual or Group Therapy for Client

Often, for clients who have been sexually exploited by their counselors, the original problem or concern that brought them into therapy was never resolved.   It may also be necessary to be able to find a supportive atmosphere in which to process the experience of sexual exploitation.  Counseling with an ethical professional can be useful in resolving both the exploitation and the original issue.   This can be done either in individual or group therapy.

There are currently several groups which are set up specifically for people who have been sexually exploited by their counselors.  The can be an invaluable source of support and healing. [ back ]

Complaint to a Professional Association

Many counselors belong to a professional association, all of which have ethical guidelines.  Within those guidelines, sexual contact between counselors and clients is clearly unethical.  You may make a formal complaint to the ethics committee of a professional association.  The contact person and filing process are different for each professional association.  After an investigation is conducted, if the allegation is found to be true, the counselor can be removed from membership.

An advantage of this option is that it alerts the counselor's peers to what is occurring.  Professionals have an investment in keeping their profession as "clean" as possible.  A disadvantage is that because membership in a professional association is not required of counselors, counselors may continue working without restriction, even if they have been excluded from the association.  One way to locate a professional association/organization is to consult the licensing or registration board for the specific occupation.  [ back ]

Write or Call Ex-Counselor

You may choose to confront your counselor alone by writing a letter or calling.  This would give you the opportunity to let the counselor know that what happened was not okay and to express your feelings.  The advantage to this is that it is quick and private.  One disadvantage is that it may alert your counselor to other actions you may take (such as a complaint to a supervisor) and give the counselor time to plan a response.  Also, you may not get the response you want, whether it is an apology or even an acknowledgement of what occurred.  This may leave you feeling isolated and unsafe. [ back ]

Confrontation/Processing Session

This option gives the victim of sexual exploitation the opportunity to directly tell the counselor that the sexual exploitation was not okay and what the effects were.  Ideally, confrontation should be done with a third party whose role it is to help and support the victim through the session.  Sometimes, the counselor's supervisor will also be included.  Prior to an actual confrontation, the client and the support person would discuss what the client might gain from the confrontation and how the session will be structured.  The advocate is also there if difficulties should arise and to process the session with the client afterwards.

An advantage to this option is that it gives you the opportunity to tell the counselor, in a controlled situation, how you feel.  This can provide a great feeling of relief and empowerment.  A disadvantage is that expectations may not be met, resulting in disappointment.  Another possible disadvantage is the danger in confronting the offending counselor alone; have a support person there. [ back ]

Licensure or Registration Complaint

When a professional is licensed, a complaint to the proper licensing body can result in the loss of the right to practice within the state.  Currently, there are licensing boards for psychiatrists (and other physicians), nurses, and psychologists, and other professionals.  An advantage of a licensure complaint is the possibility of either loss of license or at least much closer supervision of the offending practitioner.   It also alerts the counselor's peers and employer.  A disadvantage is that the sanctions imposed on the counselor may not be as strong as you would like.  The hearing procedure may also feel very intimidating. [ back ]

Do Nothing

Some people feel that they don't want or aren't able to take any specific action.  Reading this resource is a first step.  It is alright for you to choose to do nothing more about the experience right now.  You also have a right to change your mind and take action later. [ back ]

Copyright © 1988 Minnesota Coalition Against Sexual Assault, with edits by AdvocateWeb.

Intro ] Introduction ] Definitions of Sexual Exploitation ] Warning Signs ] If it is You ] Questions You May Be Asking ] Counselors Who Exploit ] [ Consider the Options ] You Don't Have to Do This Alone ] For Concerned Persons ] Choosing a Counselor ] Client's Bill of Rights ]

 

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