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It's Never OK
Information for Victims and Victim Advocates on Sexual Exploitation by Counselors and Therapists

Sexual or romantic involvement
between a counselor and a client
is never okay. 



Such behavior is considered taboo by all groups in the mental health professions.  It is both unethical and illegal behavior.  The consequences are destructive and far reaching for the client who has become the victim of the counselor.

"It's Never OK"
by the Public Education Work Group
of the
Task Force on Sexual Exploitation by Counselors and Therapists
May 1988

 See credits below for full information.

quotopen.gif (122 bytes)It's really hard to explain how powerful the therapist seems to the client.  He is supposed to be the expert, the trusted person who knows what is best for you.  I wish I hadn't ignored my uneasiness and confusion when he started touching me.  I guess I wanted him to take my pain away and to take care of me.   It turned out that I was taking care of his needs most of the time.  I was someone for him to confide in, to hold, to be flattered by.quoteclose.gif (128 bytes)

It is the purpose of this resource to define sexual exploitation by counselors, to describe options available to victims of sexual exploitation and to present methods of choosing counselors who are not exploitative.  This resource is geared toward persons who have been sexually exploited as adults.

It feels good to have talked about this experience.  I don't feel so alone or ashamed anymore.  I just have to keep telling myself that it wasn't my fault, that I've done what I can to resolve the situation and it is time to get on with my life.  I also know that there will be reminders, flashbacks, and sorrow, but I can handle these feelings.

 


Written by: Public Education Work Group of the Task Force on Sexual Exploitation by Counselors and Therapists
Nancy Fride Biele, Chair;  Diane Capra;  Carolyn Halliday;  Molly Hurley;   Nancy Malmon;  and several others, including victim/survivors, who choose to remain anonymous.
Published by: Copyright © 1988 Minnesota Coalition Against Sexual Assault.  All rights reserved.
This has been reproduced by advocateweb.org with permission from the Minnesota Coalition Against Sexual Assault.  Some edits were made, with permission, to convert this to an online HTML document.  Also,  the scope was expanded or generalized for sections which focused on Minnesota-specific laws, policies, and agencies.  Minnesota-specific details were removed.  This information was originally published as a handbook entitled: "It's never OK: A Handbook for Victims and Victim Advocates on Sexual Exploitation by Counselors and Therapists", by The Task Force on Sexual Exploitation by Counselors and Therapists; Minnesota Program for Victims of Sexual Assault; Minnesota Department of Corrections;  May 1988.  Funds for that project were provided by the U.S. Department of Justice, Office of Justice Programs, through the Victim of Crime Act of 1984.  The contents do not necessarily reflect the views and policies of this grantor agency.
Acknowledgements: The Minnesota Program for Victims of Sexual Assault extends its thanks and appreciation to the following people who were involved in the development of this handbook:
To Barbara Sanderson, Task Force Coordinator, and Peggy Specktor, formerly of the Minnesota Program for Victims of Sexual Assault, for coordinating this project.
To Dan O'Brien, Assistant to the Commissioner, Minnesota Department of Corrections, for assisting in the preparation of the publication.
To Linda Schintz, former Secretary of Anishinabe Longhouse, Minnesota Department of Corrections, for the many patient hours she devoted to preparing the handbook for publication.
To those who served as members of the task force and its work groups for more than three years for their time, expertise, and commitment to addressing the issues of sexual exploitation by counselors and therapists.
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